Codependent No More: How To Stop Controlling Others And Start Caring For Yourself
Melody Beattieās compassionate and insightful look into codependencyāthe concept of losing oneself in the name of helping anotherāhas guided millions of readers toward the understanding that they are powerless to change anyone but themselves and that caring for the self is where healing begins.
Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to a loved oneās self-destructive behavior, you may be codependentāāand you may find yourself in this book. With personal reflections, exercises, and instructive stories drawn from Beattieās own life and the lives of those sheās counseled, Codependent No More helps you break old patterns and maintain healthy boundaries and offers a clear and achievable path to healing, hope, freedom, and happiness.
This revised edition includes an all-new chapter on trauma and anxietyāsubjects Beattie has long felt necessary to address within the context of codependencyāmaking it even more relevant today than it was when it first entered the national conversation over 35 years ago.